Finding your deepest motivation
Me: So what's your motivation then, what really drives you, deep down? H: It's [insert detailed, well-thought through statement here] Me: Erm, no. H: [startle] Me: It's something deeper. This…
Helping sensitive, intelligent children
One of the most frequent questions I hear from people interested in my work is "do you work with children?" I don't - at the moment - but I do…
Grieving our environment
This last month has seen some pretty alarming results being published. The possibility of a sixth mass extinction looms. CO2 is up, temperatures are up, extreme weather events are up.…
Releasing through grieving
Many of my clients are grieving. They don't always know this before our sessions. But there comes a point in working together that the grief comes. Grief comes in silently.…
Releasing hip pain
"Hey! Look at my hip!" my client exclaimed, delightedly lunging and lifting her leg to demonstrate. "I can move it!" One month earlier, she'd come to me for a healing…
What are you ready for?
Are you ready for yourself? Are you ready for the limitless love that's in your heart already? Are you ready for a million passions? Are you ready for the…
Why self-help books don’t always work
Long ago, I discovered self-help books that didn't work. Self-development processes that didn't stick. Self-improvement methods that didn't bring about lasting improvements. It's not that these books, processes and methods…
Are you sensitive or sensitised?
You've heard it too many times already. "Urgh, you're so sensitive" "Why do you have to take everything so seriously? So personally?" "What are you worried about that for?" Annoying,…
Post-natal numb
Fourteen months after my child was born, I first felt the warmth of my love for him. Fourteen long months of being emotionally shut down came to an end. Functional,…
Trust your process
The further you go on the personal development path, the more you come to recognise and trust the pattern of process. The pattern of how change happens, integration, and adjusting…